How can your man be the best Valentine ever…

Valentine’s day is regarded as one of the most romantic days of the year. It is the day we express our love and desire to that special person. It is also the day that Men have the opportunity to demonstrate to their partner how romantic they are by showering her with love, gifts, and lavish amounts of poetic words.

How then can Men ensure they make this Valentines Day one she will always remember. How can he make his display of romance and love to his partner magnificent, even breathtaking for her? How can he guarantee this Valentine’s Day will be Romantic for them both?

Some of the ways to avoid the disaster include, refraining using a voucher for a discount meal and to go somewhere that he also needs to shower, shave and dress in his finest attire. He doesn’t need to go to excessive expense. Planning in advance is essential. That romantic candle lit meal can be enjoyed at a fine restaurant, at home or outside as a picnic. Whatever he decides to do to spoil the woman of his dreams needs to be special, needs to be thought out and needs some effort included.

This to any woman is part of the romance. The thought and preparation that ensures he has, and is, thinking of her, not just on Valentines Day but also days prior which is indicated by his planning. While women love the elegant restaurant meal; an arranged candle lit dinner at home, or prepared picnic basket somewhere quiet and romantic would win.

Make sure when enjoying that romantic night, refrain from all social media and technology, unless of course, it is to post on social media your amazing date, just to make all friends jealous. The focus is on her.

When arranging or purchasing her flowers, I suggest not to purchase from the local supermarket or garage, but make an effort to ensure a respected florist delivers a beautiful single rose or bouquet of flowers to her.

Writing a few personal words of love or a poem will make her heart melt. He can even use a passage he has found and changed it to make it personal for her. Never leave it up to the florist to compose a verse, it is your gift to her and your words to use.

While every girl loves jewellery, this is not required. Feeling spoilt by this amazing man that has taken the time to think of her, to make an effort to arrange something special, to plan, and has thought of her first and foremost, will make this Valentine’s Day the best ever. This is the one she will always remember and the Valentine’s Day she will boast about to all her family and friends.

Any man wanting to make an impression on his girlfriend or partner, her friends and her family should do this. It demonstrates how much he loves, cares and thinks about her.

A few tips for him to guarantee he wins her heart are:

  1. Be organised, arrange to take her to somewhere exquisite and extraordinary. Perhaps that celebrated restaurant she always wanted to go. Intimate surroundings, soft music, low lights are always romantic.


If on a budget, arrange a candlelit dinner at home or a romantic picnic with a blanket, champagne and a prepared dinner. Preparing it yourself will add to that special moment as she appreciates the time and effort he has made.

  1. Having flowers delivered early in the morning to set up her anticipation for the romantic day ahead melts every woman’s heart.

  2. Write a short poem to express your feelings and unrelenting love. Just a few personal words will make her melt.

The key to a magical Valentines Day is Preparation.

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